Girls Hair Styles
April 16th, 2010
Now that school is back, are you finding that your morning consists in yelling at your children, trying to get them fed and ready for school? That 1 hour before you drop them off is just not enough to do everything AND take care of your girl’s hair style?
I have learned that it is very important to realize that your child might be feeling inadequate towards her piers if she does not follow the same fashion style or care. Part of building your child’s self-esteem also comes from dressing adequately and hair style definitely comes into play when deciding whether or not your child fits in. I often notice with my own children, when they are among their friends, they feel inclined to like the same things, clothes and hair style. Although little, my 3 year old daughter will ask for me to do her hair in a ponytail or add a headband to her hair if she sees that her friends also have the same style.
My mother was a kindergarten teacher and although she loved her students, all of them, she commented that she treated the ones that were clean and well dressed better than the others. It was in her subconscious and it’s not that she deliberately wanted to treat the others poorly, she just felt more inclined to treat those well dressed children better.
Her comment made me think about the many times when I went out in my sweats and was not respected as usual. Mothers have to wear many hats and have a lot going on in their lives and sometimes, it gets complicated to sit and do a hair style that might take you 30 minutes or so to do. It is a misconception that to be well dressed you have to spend a lot of money. Considering the current economy trend it would sound impossible to be well dressed. But, the one thing the current economy has given us is fierce competition and high competition is always followed by lower prices.











